Confused on what to do
Hi,
So my partner and I have been together for a month now and I wanted to be all extra and say happy 1 month and all that but I worry they're going to think I'm doing too much since it's not that long of a time tho it is a milestone for me. I just don't want them thinking I'm 'too much but I worry that maybe they also want to say something but are also scared..? I don't know what to do.
Hi there, it all depends how long you guys known each other for, how long you guys been talking, your level of comfortability with each other…
But if you guys are both on the same path and level then there is no such thing as too much! of course its a milestone!
happy 1 month you too!
Hello @powerfulBalloon7146,
You could always start by having a conversation about what day it is. And evolve that conversation into talking about if having mini monthly anniversaries is something the both of you want to celebrate. New relationships sometime have uncomfortable conversations, but once you start the conversations they usually get easier. I felt the same way with me and my partner and we both had different expectations and often I would be upset that an anniversary didn’t get celebrated, but they didn’t know that was something I wanted. A simple conversation earlier on could have made those days more special. But eventually we had the conversation and we’ve been together happily for almost 9 years. <3 Happy one month anniversary to you and your significant other.
