Dealing with Relationship Doubt
I recently ended a 4 and a half year relationship. I still love this person very much, but every once in awhile throughout the relationship I always got these feelings of doubt and wondered if this was the one for me. Anytime I thought about marrying them it made me happy, but also caused me to panic. I finally had to end things to take a break to see if I can work through these feelings on my one. Has anyone been in a similar situation and has some advice?
Hi there, I just broke up with my boyfriend for 5 years because he asked me to have an open relationship. I know is not the same, but I also had many doubts before he actually asked me he wanted an open relationship. If you have doubts, listen, listen carefully cause normally, the intuition is right. Take this time for yourself. That is something I never did. I should have done it... since he had already cheated on me (twice). So yep, please, do so. Take that time, listen to yourself. Be honest with yourself. If it is the right person, he\she will understand. But please, be kind, try to explain very carefully and gently. Take time with him/her to explain you need this to see if your relationship is strong. And put a time. Don’t let the person waiting... he/she needs to know the time you’ll be back with your answer. Be honest. Communication is the key.
