Dealing with ignored trauma
So in the beginning of the year I realized I had been groomed online and it was a traumatic experience for me. I refused to really talk about it. I thought I was fine but I’m not. It’s ruining my view of men my view of relationships and my view of intimacy. I recently met a guy over Instagram and were planning a date but I am feeling very anxious and I am realizing this is why.
@ ImConfusedWhatsWrong,
I hear you. There is nothing wrong with you. You had a traumatic experience. It takes courage to talk about that on 7 Cups, that is a huge step!
Have you considered getting professional help? As these kind of traumas can hunt you, and become part of you, influencing any relationship in a negative way. Professional help can prevent that from happening. Additionaaly, you could also try to find out if there are any forums on the Internet that can be trusted and where you can talk with persons with likewise experiences. I know (based on other personal experiences) how helpful it can be to be with people that understand within talking, explaining. People who feel exactly like you.
Take care, and, again, I am proud of you to post your story!