Does he like me or am I reading too much into this?
So Ive (18F) only been on tinder for a couple months. Im not going to lie, its fun and Im not ashamed of using it. About 3 weeks ago, I matched with this guy (19M) who lives about 25-30 minutes away from me. We met up for the first time for ice cream and talked for awhile. It was a nice time, not super awkward and then he invited me back to his place. We get back to his house and talk a little, watch Netflix, and then we hookup, which I expected to happen and assumed thats all he wanted, and I was okay with this.
Afterwards, Im getting my stuff together to leave and he asked if he was going to see me again. This kind of caught me off guard because thats not what I was expecting to hear after a tinder hookup. I playful responded with, well are you going to text me later, to which he said he might. It was pretty awkward.
Later that night, he texted me and said he had a good time and the next day, he invited me over again for the following evening. I go over again and we talk/cuddle for a good 20-30 minutes before we hookup again. Nothing special happened and it was pretty comfortable.
30 minutes after I leave, he texts me and thanks me for coming over and that he had a good time again.
Its now been a week since weve seen each other but we text everyday. Were both busy so its not constant texting(30min-1hour between responses) but its a continuous conversation throughout the week if that makes sense. However, he hasnt invited me over or made plans to see me during this time and the conversation doesnt really including flirting. Its mostly just causal conversation/getting to know each other, which I dont have a problem with but it makes it more confusing for me.
I think theres potential for me to like him but Id also be okay with him just wanting to hookup. Does this sound like he wants more than just a causal relationship?
Weve only been texting for about 3 weeks so I feel like its too soon to ask but I might be wrong.
@Madison60
You have had his body parts up in your body parts....it's not too soon to ask if he would like to just hook up or if he is interested in other stuff. You may be wanting to think up excuses to avoid asking because it might feel awkward or potentially lead to some kind of rejection....and pretty much everyone will try to put off those situations. But if you want to know, then it's not a bad time to ask him and the only way to know is to ask.