Does she truely love me?
I have met her 5 months back and firstly I friend zoned her she was really interested in me and she made me fall in love and she was the one started love and it was going well , last Saturday she was with her friends hanging out with friends, she was drunk I don't know what happened she was online but she was not replying if I ask why you're not replying she was acting different! and her actions and intrest in me has been become less and I'm worried if that I have cried for 3-4 days just because of her and I cannot focus on myself and career and I'm vomiting sometimes . she pops up every second in my mind I can't even get rid of this I get scared because I think the promises made the way we spoke Will not gonna happen anymore I don't know what's wrong with me and her I'm just overthinking and she is least intrested in me I think :(
@Sagar04
Hello
Big hug! It sounds like a difficult time for you. Do you think that maybe she was just busy with her friends that night? Especially with being drunk, she might not have been in the right mental space to be able to focus on your needs. Maybe she had her own fears/insecurities/issues with one of her friends? Emotions can make us behave differently, even toward people we love. Have you spoken with her since that night? Sometimes we imagine the worst.
Feeling rejected/abandoned are some of the worst feelings for some people, it can feel so unbearable and catastrophic and when that happens it is impossible to think of anything else. Especially once we have become so attached to someone. 💛
@Sagar04
I think I posted under, instead of clicking reply - trying again just in case so you see this! 🤗😊
Big hug! It sounds like a difficult time for you. Do you think that maybe she was just busy with her friends that night? Especially with being drunk, she might not have been in the right mental space to be able to focus on your needs. Maybe she had her own fears/insecurities/issues with one of her friends? Emotions can make us behave differently, even toward people we love. Have you spoken with her since that night? Sometimes we imagine the worst.
Feeling rejected/abandoned are some of the worst feelings for some people, it can feel so unbearable and catastrophic and when that happens it is impossible to think of anything else. Especially once we have become so attached to someone. 💛