Don’t focus on the hurting
I hate the feeling in missing someone so much but you cant do anything about it. I hate that sinking feeling in your heart knowing they’ve moved on. Time does heal, and its been close to 11 months since my breakup that my heart sinks a little less thinking about my Ex. I need to give myself some credit because I’ve grown and tried talking to other people, I find that I love myself more today that I had in the relationship and thats improvement. I just hate how it went down between us, and now he’s moved on. Im happy for him, and for her, but im sad for myself. I try to stay hopeful that i’ll find a nice person to connect with, but it’s been tough due to covid so life just feels like its on pause. But i think about how life is for my Ex, and i bet he’s chillin his ass off right about now. Life is up and down and i’ve learned that things happen for a reason, and things are always changing. So i try not to focus on hurting so much from this, because in the end, my worth is better than focusing on an Ex who didnt deserve me in the first place. thx for coming to my ted talk🤗
Hello @ambitiousbeach333,
It is great to hear you speak so positively about your breakup. As you say, things take time and you have found the positive in this. You have learned about yourself and have healed. It is also great to see that you have taken time for yourself and found self-love! Congratulations on doing this and putting in the work! You must be so proud!
I am sure you will find the one who is right for you soon!
Take care and stay safe!
@KristinaJ86
Thank you so much for your response, Its nice to be able to have a space like this. It makes me feel less alone, and it’s uplifting to hear your words of support and encouragement. Sending you light and positivity <3