Dont know if I love her

Hello.

So I have moved away from home for uni in September and made this great friend. We talk all the time and I'm literally the only person she talks to the most at school. This month I told her I've been falling for her and I really do care for her. The thing is she doesn't know if she likes me or have feelings for anyone in particular.

Recently two other people have started to try to get her to go out with her but she doesn't want a relationship with any of them. Shes been sharing her thoughts all that with me and I've been trying to be a neutral ground for her.

The problem is that I dont think I feel that instense love for her in the beginning but I really do care and would like her to be in my life until the end. She is really special and means a lot to me. I dont know what to do.