Don't want a relationship but friends w benefits is not enough

This guy and I have a thing at firs he really liked me and it seemed like he wanted to be my bf, but I kind of left hints that I don't want that and no he's not texting me but we have plans to hookup this weekend, he used to text me every day btw. And now he's talking to another girl, I don't want to date him but I'm not jealous but low key hurt. What I want is a everything from a relationship except the title, I'm vary stressed and sad I guess a liitle