He is pulling away.
Me and a guy were dating. one month into almost daily meeting and talking, he said he needed space, i freaked out, i started him calling more, he got more suffocated and started increasing his distance and told me he doesn't need this behaviour in his life. now he picks up my call in 2-3 days and speak atmost 2-3 mins. i still want to call him, I miss him like hell even after spending just a month. i want to stop my urge to contact him. i don't have control over my feelings.
@Aanu Hi dear. In this case we have some attachment to this person which is a little bit unjustified considering the very short period you've been together. People tend to feel scared by commitment when it becomes very obvious in a very early stage of a relationship and tend to take you for granted. In this case the problem is deeper than just a relationship issue. It is something that should be healed within you and the attachment you have to people and why. This is something you should work out with a therapist since attachment has its roots in the early/childhood stages of someone's life so they may need to go pretty deep to find the causes and conduct therapy. After that, in this relationship or a new one, you should keep in mind that you are important and matter. If you feel that about yourself, your partner will too. Don't be afraid to set boundaries and be confident as this is the only way for you to be appreciated! You don't need to be attached to find love. On the contrary you should practice techniques on how to love yourself first. Then your partner will love you too. Thank you very much for sharing and everything will fall into place eventually!