How do I abandon a bad freind?
Hi, Im Kayla and I have autism so I request help and advice from others often. I need to know how to ditch my freinds I have here is Colorado. I need to leve some freinds faster than others. I also need to make new freinds in Texas when I move there. Dose anyone know how to leve old freinds and make new ones. I also am unhappy with the way my freinds here are treating me. With autism I hate to be looked at, touched or be in crowded places. Can you give me advice on how to leve my old freinds and make new freinds.
@Kaylakowala29 I think you should explain to your bad friends why you don't feel comfortable anymore around them, not necessarily being harsh or mean or anything like that. Just explaining the reasons you want to stop being around them. And for making new friends I would recommend being yourself and maybe trying an activity you like, for exemple lets say you like to read, maybe try to see if there's a readers club in your area :) good luck and take care!
@Kaylakowala29
hi, thank you for sharing. I usually stop communicating with them and then it fades away.. but it happened with some that later we communicate a little bit for example online, like once or twice a year or so.. I feel those friends who are always the same friend no matter how long since the last time we spoke are the most valuable friends over a lifetime. Over time we move, we change interests, we change work, we change school, friendships ends and friendships starts along the journey. maybe not a good advice but I dont feel like I owe anyone an explanation why Im not joining them anymore. Especially not a bad one!
