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How does your partner cope???

User Profile: HelloKitty83
HelloKitty83 October 14th, 2018

Hi, I'm having a really bad time at the moment, I'm coming off my meds. My partner is not supportive at all, any time I am going through a bad time he makes me feel like it's my fault, my fault I'm miserable, my fault I don't want to join in with anything. He dosnt talk to me and says that I'm in a huff so why should he talk to me. I'm made to feel bad for feeling like this. If tried to explain I can't help it and that he dosnt help with how he treats me but it dosnt sink in with him, we are on the verge of splitting up, I feel like it's my fault but realisticly I know it's not.

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User Profile: DavidEss
DavidEss October 17th, 2018

@HelloKitty83

Sounds like at a time when you need most support you are getting none, and that just adds to the pain.

Is it possible that he is worried about you coming off your meds? Did you discuss such a major step with him?

Men are fixers, and he can't fix this. He feels useless, probably, and that may be why he's keeping a distance.