How to cope with someone being distant
I really need advice. The girl I like hasnt talked to me in over two weeks. This isnt the first time shes done this. She always comes back and reassures me. But this time feels different. I also think its hard because she lives in Louisiana and Im in PA so we only communicate through text. I got really upset today because she hasnt been talking to me. She hasnt been active anywhere. Not on social media. Not through text. Im very worried about her but also feel like she might just be blowing me off. How do I deal with this? How do I cope with this? How do I wait it out and see until shesready to talk again? Shes very depressed. Things have been happening with her family. I got really upset today and told her I really missed her and needed to hear from her. I told her if I didnt hear from her by Friday I was walking away. I dont wanna do that. But I dont know what to do anymore. I finally felt safe with someone again and trusted her and its been awhile since I felt like that and now i think I fucked up. What should I do?
@Jflack324 Maybe she is just really busy and doesn't have time to commuicate with you as much as you want or maybe she found some one else.
@Jflack324 I have been in a similar situation but I have no advice for you. Reading this was like looking at my past self.
I honestly couldn't stand it (the situation) in the end. I felt like I was too demanding and needy because she simply didn't have time to talk to me. She was also going through things. The fact that I was being pushed away became too obvious to ignore. We had been friends since school but I decided to let go this friendship that was hurting me. I gave up. The end.
Though I must say I am a lot less stressed out or worried and very indifferent now. 🙂
Do what's right for you and your mental/physical health.
