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How to tell her that I like her

January 15th, 2017

I like this girl, and I don't know how to tell her that I like her. I've known her for a couple of years but only in recent months I've been talking to her. And when i talk to her, her friend is around or in a group chat. Never face to face or on a private chat. I feel like she does like me. What should I do

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User Profile: dancingStrawberry34
dancingStrawberry34 January 15th, 2017

@Aojs23thnn

Im here if you want to chat in pms <3

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January 15th, 2017

@dancingStrawberry34 ok how??

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User Profile: imontheoutside
imontheoutside January 16th, 2017

@Aojs23thnn Hi there! It is sweet of you to want to confess to her! Have you considered asking her friend to give you and her some time alone to talk and perhaps confess then?

User Profile: angelology
angelology January 16th, 2017

@Aojs23thnn it's great that you're going to take the step to asking her out! Just remember that the anticipation is almost always worse than the actual conversation, no matter what. Wellcast has a really great video on asking someone out here!

User Profile: wonderousHeart14
wonderousHeart14 January 16th, 2017

@Aojs23thnn

Which ways have you considered telling her?

User Profile: WildUnknown
WildUnknown January 18th, 2017

@Aojs23thnn

If I were in your position, I would start a private chat with her during which I would ask her to hang out with me privately. I wouldn't make it too big of a deal if I thought we would be uncomfortable with that, but I would make it very clear I wanted to grab coffee/see a film/whatever with her and her ALONE, because I thought she was really cool and wanted to get to know her better. It doesn't necessarily have to be pressured into a ~DATE~. If you both do have feelings, it will develop naturally once you get the ball rolling by at least having time with her without all the other friends involved.

User Profile: RobinSchebatzki
RobinSchebatzki January 20th, 2017

@Aojs23thnn I think most girls like straightforward guys. So it would be good if you can be straightforward with her. Maybe ask her out once and see, if she likes you back she will agree to go out. Then you will have time to talk alone. Hope everything goes well for you. Good luck!

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January 23rd, 2017

@RobinSchebatzki I am very shy person

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January 23rd, 2017

So in recent days , we've been talking on the group chat. Also, I knew she had snapchat, but refused to add me a couple of months ago. But she added me on snapchat , which said "added by username" which I guess mean she asked someone for my username.