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Ive had 3 boyfriends my whole life and every one of them have been long term. My first boyfriend cheated on me with 10 people at a party I begged him not to go to which lead to us breaking up and my most recent ex never ever went to parties so I had never had to deal with the trauma and stress behind my significant other going to a party or anything without me since my first boyfriend. My current boyfriend back in October ended up going to a party after I begged him not too and I found out three months after the party he got kissed by another girl there. Well tonight the same group of people invited him to a party and he wouldnt let me go with him because he said it would make the people there uncomfortable bc they dont like me. But it makes me uncomfortable with him going there without me especially knowing about what happened last time and we got into a huge argument and he ended up going anyways. But he made me feel like he cares more about these other people he barely sees being comfortable than he does about Me being comfortable
It was definitely not nice of your partner, he should understand what you've been through and have empaphy for your trauma. At the same time I really recomend you look for some help, a trauma is something you should deal with, i'm not saying you should just get over it, but as something that affects your life so much you should be willing to seek for help and maybe you'll learn how to deal with these type of situation, maybe you and you boyfried could do this together, I'm sure he will support you if he is really the one.
