I am so confused
I recently came out of a 4 year relationship. It's been a couple of weeks and I felt almost all of the days great. The thing is that I met this other girl and we are in the same friend group. The thing is that we like had/have like a fling and we already slept two times together and fooled around a couple of other times. She was even talking about me meeting her family and stuff and really getting my hopes up. But every time she does that she ignores me afterwards. She said that she is not a really good texter but it's been 4 days since she last send me a message just after we had sex the say before. I really got feelings for her and now I suffer so much. I guess that it's stupid to feel like this but it's hurting me more than ending my relationship. I really am falling in love with this girl. Should I just give up on her?
@ChrisLaute
Hi Chris! Unfortunately, none of us are in a position to give you advice on this matter since you know your situation best and we don't want to say anything that might prove to be counter-productive.
However, from the looks of things, it would appear that you guys are having some issues with communication. While this may not necessarily apply to you, what has worked in my experience is just being honest with the other person about how I feel - letting them know what my intentions are, how I feel about them, and where I would like the relationship to go. Granted, there is the risk of them not reciprocating how you feel, but at least for me, personally, rejection is better than no answer at all.
If she claims to be a lousy texter, there are others ways for the two of you to talk. Maybe speaking to her over the phone or meeting in-person again?
Hope this helps and good luck!
