I don’t know what to do..
I confessed to my old best friend that I had feelings for her before my now husband came along. Little did I know she had and has feelings for me too. I thought it was a joke and maybe she was just saying it to make me feel better about myself but she was being honest.
im not sure what to do because now I can’t stop thinking about her.
@heavenlymess
Hello!
So, you shared your feelings with her, that you had in the past. And she shared that she felt the same. And now you are not sure what to do, understandably, it must be a confusing time. I guess you are trying to work out what this all means for you.
These feelings you said you both shared (though maybe didn't know it then) back before you met your husband. Was that a long time ago? I guess it might feel a big relief, to finally be able to talk about those feelings, after having held them in so long. What else are you feeling? Some guesses...relief, excitement, joy, acceptance, connection. Or maybe something like regret, sadness, guilt?
How is your connection with your husband? Is this something you can talk about with him? Are there any other big changes, challenges or difficulties in your life at the moment?
Blessings and best wishes 
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