I feel like I'm stuck and not sure what to do
My fiance and I met just over two years ago and in the beginning it was great. We have alot in common and he 'gets me'. I don't have to put on airs and graces and I can be myself. He gets on well with my kids (previous marriage) and they like him. We moved in together after 6 mths and for awhile it was good. Lately I have realised that I don't feel the same way towards him as I used to and feel we have gone into 'the friend zone'. I have been having thoughts of calling it a day and hopefully remaining friends but I don't want to hurt him and I know this will. Plus my family like him and think he's wonderful and will be disappointed if we do break up and I don't want to upset them either. I know they will support me in my choice but I feel like I would be letting them down. He knows things are not right. We have talked a little about things but didn't make a decision. I know dragging it out is going to hurt both of us. I feel caught up and so unsure of what to do. After advice on the hope that maybe I can make a decision that is beneficial to all concerned if that makes sense.
Hi. I am so sorry that you are in this difficult situation. Decision is entirely yours. But I would like to tell you that you will never let down your family and your kids by being happy. It will hurt both him and you. But try to have a long honest conversation with him. Ask him what does he feel and what is wrong in his opinion. And tell him your thoughts, even in the simplest of words. Tell them as they are.
I wish you all the strength, luck and happiness in this world.