I feel weak and lonely
I broke up 1 and half month ago and since then I've just been sad, ive tried really hard to stay away and maintain distance but I cant and I keep giving in to the urge and text/call meet the person. I cry alot, I don't sleep well, it's been really hard. I do have friends but I feel they are fed of me talking about my ex and I don't wanna burden them with more of my emotions, idk who to talk to, I want that constant support, I just feel really not okay. Although my ex wants to be my friend but i dont have it in me to be his friend, ive tried alot. I don't wanna be his friend and I know I can't be his partner again, I don't want that either, it's just, I just wanna get over him and feel good about myself again, to be able to focus again, rn i just feel apathic towards everything.
@blue0711 i'm really sorry to hear that blue, breakups can be really tough. it's okay if you're really unsure about being his friend again, you don't have to. it's all entirely your choice. giving yourself the time to heal is very important. i understand just wanting to feel okay, but we can't rush the process y'know? you're not a burden, and you can let your friends know that they can stop you during conversation if the venting gets to be too much, you can communicate to them. it's important to feel these emotions and not push them down and away. it's also very important to remember that although you feel lost and alone right now, you're not alone and you will be okay without him, even if it's scary. you're still loved by the people in your life and you will heal with time. i hope this response can help you feel a little better. you're not alone, you're going to be okay <3
I know exactly how you feel, I got broken up with I June and I just want you to know that you're not alone and it will get better with time even if you feel like it wont.
