I have feelings for someone but idk if they feel the same and its messing me up
First of all i'm new to all this forum stuff, literally joined this site today so apologies if I do anything wrong like...
So I am gonna start this off by saying I have had many crushes before and been in a few relationships and none of them have quite messed me up as this. There is a girl in most of my classes, I'll refer to her a L, and as time has gone on over these last 2/3 Years I have started to feel a connection between us. I have no idea what it is or why it's there it just is, as I previously said I have been through crushes and a couple of relationships and none of them had made me feel this way. Everytime I see her I get all nervous that im gonna mess up, I get jealous of other guys when they talk to her, I get so happy when she replies to my messages, I haven't a clue why I've started to feel like this. Then there's the fact that I haven't got the courage to do anything about it like I havent been able to ask her out let alone the fact I have plans to ask her to prom later next year. I just feel like she doesn't like me back but I think I've fallen for her but I have no courage because I feel like I already know the answer to either of those questions. Idk I'm probably blowing this way out of proportion and wasted everybody who reads this' time so sorry I guess.
I can understood what your going though. My crush, unfortunately, moved away across the US to California before I could work up the nerve to tell him. So the best advice I think I can give you is to tell her! Not only does it give you a sense of closure {knowing you've told her and the ball is now in her court}, and it takes a huge burden off your shoulders.
@1Cutecinnamonbaby alright I see what you are saying but I have no idea how to work up the courage to do it like, I have PTSD which is a pain in itself let alone when trying to do something like this, got any tips at all? :/
@MetalFan2018, as far as your PTSD goes, I can't give you any advice on that. Expect for just bresthe and take one step at a time. I know it's not much, but I hope it helps?....
@1Cutecinnamonbaby I will have to put it into practice if things get too chaoctic, but I'm sure it should help, can't see why it wouldnt, thank you :)
Also, I just want to wish you the best of luck. I hope she goes out with you!
@MetalFan2018 I totally get how you feel. My experience is that asking is always better. Even the worst outcome-- i.e a rejection, is better than this state of being "messed up."
I hope it goes well for you, but even if it does not, you'll be able to get on with your life.