I might be broken inside
First time here so please be gentle with me.
Gay male, 29, in a relationship.
I think I found the perfect guy, we share a lot in common, we enjoy time together and many other things that would take too long to write.
The thing is, lately I think that I want to be single and alone again. I wrote coz I mean I wanna be on my own.
Before the pandemic, I used to travel a lot, met people, have sex, and then keep the friendship (yes, I'm a very active person)
To make things worst, I feel that the passion is fading and I want to have sex with others because sex with the same person is boring (at least for me) and is not the fact that we are doing monotonous sex, because we are doing plenty of stuff, the main reason is that is the same person and dear God it makes me get bored.
I don't want to hurt him by breaking up, first I'm trying to seek help before doing something I know for sure will make him suffer.
Please, any advice?
Thank you for sharing this with us here.
@SergioRosales i am not really sure to me it seems you just like hook up's and aren't into serious relationships but its better to be honest with him then to continue to lead him on because in the end someone will get hurt if you continue this.
Have you always been in a relationship with one person? Is that what you want as your end game? Or do you think you would want to be in an open relationship that allows you to have multiple sexual partners? Or do you just want to share her single? I guess you need to find out what you want and what you would be happy with and go from there. Best of luck :)