Im stuck
Ive been a relationship for 5yrs ever since sophomore year in high school. I been with him and now i feel overwhelmed and stress out. He is a amazing person to me, i care for him a lot. I'm going through some stuff such as financially family and work. I feel like since my relationship is the only thing I can control therefore I'm trying to in my relationship. I don't want to hurt him but I am by not knowing what I want. Like I don't want him to be with me because I don't want to be pushing him away which I am now. Also my mom doesn't like him and it hurts me because I don't Want to be defending him all the time. I love him I love him so much and having to be in between both of them I feel stuck because I don't want to hurt neither of them. I know I didn't get so much information but I can answer questions I don't know what to do
@Cruz0205
Sorry to hear that you are feeling stuck, overwhelmed and stressed out. Youve mentioned finances, family and work as responsible for many of these feelings. On the positive, it is wonderful that you love the man in your life and he treats you well. The answer to a couple of questions may help explain your situation a bit more. Why do you not want your man to be with you at this time? What is it that your mother doesnt like about him? Hoping the community here can provide you with more clarity to move ahead with your life.
@Brightlook57 Well, he is a great man that i shouldnt be treating him bad. The way i mean by that is making him have hope when my decision may be made and its to end it. I do have hope to meet up with him again and start again. My mom doesnt like him because he kinda doesnt even like my mom neither. In the 5yrs together they've only talk 4x and never turn out great.
@Cruz0205
Yes, when our head just isn