I need help, I'm going crazy
Me and my boyfriend are together for one year, in this one year we went through a lot you know, but he is not happy with me and I'm ready to let him go, yesterday I saw that he has a dating app on his phone and he is chatting with girls, the problem with him is that he is the most toxic person I have ever met, he never apologize even when he is wrong and he is the best manipulator he always puts the blame on me and he manipulate me to think that it's actually my fault, so I tried to break up with him and he doesn't want to, he is treating me and I'm really scared of him, ohh and he isn't okay mentally I mean at all.. he is okey for couple of days and then boom he starts yelling at me for no reason, makes me cry and enjoy it, I can't anymore, I'm going crazy, I am Soo stressed, I can't fall asleep without pills, and the pills doesn't even work on me anymore, I need help!
P.S. Sorry for my English it's not my first language.
Anyone would feel like they're going crazy under those circumstances. But you're not. You've chosen to stay in an healthy environment that is crazy. And its something you need to choose to be part of, or be
free from.
It's your life. Live your best. Do not settle for agreeing to be abused. Get support, get away, and don't look back. Love yourself and treat yourself like you would treat your best friend. β₯οΈ
Sorry...one EDIT.....
I didnt mean to say "you are living in a healthy environment. " I meant to say "UNHEALTHY environment."
I have experienced being in a unhealthy relationship. You deserve so much better! People like that are hard to get away from because they play the guilt game. Sweetie you have to love yourself and know that you are worthy of love giving and receiving. Anyone who treats you poorly is not worthy of you. You are somebody and you are very special π sometimes we need to be single to discover who we are and what we bring to the table. Donβt be afraid to grow! Donβt be afraid to let go of people who are not good for your mental health. Love is not a word itβs a action. If you are afraid of him reach out and get help. He wants you to be afraid so you will remain in this situation. Call the law if you are afraid. Taking pills will only create another problem for you later on in life. Your smart, beautiful and brave.. believe in yourself and your unstoppable ππ
@iamsostressedughh
Hey dear
I am really sorry to hear about situation with your boyfriend.
I can understand your situation as you have shared that you are feeling frustrated , betrayed and mentally upset because of your toxic boyfriend who has cheated , lied, manipulated and done everything to use you for his benefit.
But still as you are a beautiful person inside out..you still want to work on this relationship.
But it is still ruining your mental health and your inner peace.
A healthy relationship is one that adds to both people's overall well-being, fueled by communication, respect, and boundaries.
For a relationship to be healthy,
it requires more than just shared interests and strong feelings for each other.
It requires two people who truly understand and care for each other, while also caring for themselves.
So I wish you that you will take the right decision to stay on this relationship or move on in life. As you are your best person as you know yourself best.
Anyway , Taking care of yourself should be your first priority in your life.
If you are not healthy physically and mentally you cant give support to other people in a relationship.
Wish you best for your future...
Hope you shine like a Star ππππ
@iamsostressedughh
Taking care of our own mental health should be the first priority
If its toxic and it taking a toll on your health then you should take the decision of removing that toxicity from your life and in your situation only you can take it.
This is the trap of toxic relationships they are intense few moments that are good compensates for the most of the times when we are feel extremely low and it most of the times doesn't get better with time as relationships are all about the people involved being open to accept mistakes .It just can't be from one side.
So plz take care of yourself. Life is beautiful and amazing and so are you so don't let anyone ruin it for you.
Take care
God Bless you !