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Insecurity issues..

User Profile: salonigupta2308
salonigupta2308 February 6th, 2022

i have been in a relationship with a guy for almost 9 months now. He had 4 exes before which bothers me a lot but i just love him too much, i am nothing without him. last night I heard talking to his friend about his exes. generally he talks in front of me about this but this time it was very secretive. it's making me uncomfortable and insecure so much and i am having stress attacks. i am worried what if his fifth ex turned out to be me

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User Profile: Lifeonmars787
Lifeonmars787 February 6th, 2022

Hey, I'm sorry to hear you feel this way. This is a lot to manage alone, and for this reason you could consider to talk about this with your partner. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it, this decision could make your relationship stronger than before. You can't know if what you are worried about is the reality, if you don't communicate with your boyfriend. You are just making assumptions, and assumptions are a lack of communication. So be brave and start to have healthy and costant communication in your relationships, if he truly care about you he will help you in the best way he knows. Good luck and take care

User Profile: Hailey3
Hailey3 February 9th, 2022

@salonigupta2308 I’m so sorry that this is causing you so much stress! I think that you should confront him without accusing him. Ask why he hid it from you and tell him the worries you have.