Is it healthy to remain friends with ex?
I care about him a lot and he seems to care about me.. but we do end up having fights... How do I stop getting emotional everytime we fight? How to stop my emotions controlling my actions and words? Is it really healthy to be friends with my ex when my emotions take over my decisions? I have no idea how to save this friendship before it becomes messy... We have only very short amount of time left, till we part ways after studies.. how do I prevent this friendship from ending due to all these fights? I would love to spend the remaining months without complications..
Any advice is helpful...
@communicativeMoon7923
Hi, I hope you are well. I'm sorry that you are having such trouble maintaining your friendship with your ex. In my opinion, it sounds like you have to get to the root of what's causing this fights and sit down to talk about what you both want to see change. I hope this helps and you are able to do what is best for you both. Wishing you the best!
Yes... It does help.... But there are lot of complications that is making it difficult to sit nd discuss our main issues... But I'm holding on.. thank you so much..
@communicativeMoon7923 What kinds of complications are you having?
Could I send you personal message if it's ok?
Hey, I understand it's hard to become friends with someone who has been close to you in another way. If you really want to stop these fights and maintain a good relationship than I feel it's important to know that even though you guys care about each other, you don't have that right on each other like you used to have. It is healthy to be friends with your ex as long as you guys don't feel drained and actually understand how special this friendship is to you. As long as you know you still care, you can always talk about it. Problems solve only when they're discussed properly.
You can surely move on if you think you've tried your best. Just try to be kind to yourself. It's okay to feel. You're only human🌻🌼
Thank you so much....ur words has helped me in viewing this issue in a different and maybe a more positive light.. thank you..
Sending hugs. 🌼🌻
It's completely okay to be vulnerable. Feeling weak doesn't mean you're weak. Some things can really have an affect on you. We can't fix everything or make everything perfect but we can be kind to ourselves in that process of healing. Healing has no timeline. You're allowed to take your time. 🤍
Where something ends, something new starts. This is your life. Someday you'll know what you want out of this. Just wait for it and don't give up. ✨🦋
You can drop a text whenever you feel stuck. I may not be able to reply instantly as I'm on a break but I'll surely try my best to hear you. Don't forget to take care of yourself. ☀️
Thank you so much... ♥️🤍 Your words are so kind and positive... thank you for listening and helping♥️
My pleasure. 🤍✨
Please take care of yourself and be well. Hope you find the happiness and peace you're looking for. 🤗🌼