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Is the Love still there?

User Profile: warmheartedCircle5686
warmheartedCircle5686 November 10th, 2021

For the past month, my husband has been playing the game every day for hours while working (he works from home) when I get home from work and even on weekends. We have a 3 and a 2 year old and I’m currently 5 months pregnant. I finally brought it to his attention again today and his response was “well I’m not going to stop playing”. I became upset and told him if he continues this route it will be the end of this relationship due to no communication among each other for days/weeks. His response was that he’s ok with that. I’m obviously mad at this point and asked him “so f*** this relationship?!” And he said yes. That ended the argument.

We haven’t said anything to each other since but I don’t know how to take it in. Perhaps I’m being dramatic cause I’m pregnant idk ? We’ve been together for 8 years and I love him dearly. I just don’t know how to approach the situation from this point cause I want him to take initiative and talk to me and discuss but that can takes days or it could never happen.

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User Profile: halcyonCloud2036
halcyonCloud2036 November 10th, 2021

@warmheartedCircle5686

You have a lot on your plate and no doubt I would feel exhausted and frustrated too! I love that you verbalized how you felt and didn't just ignore your own feelings. Don't doubt that you deserve to feel supported and prioritized. You are not asking for too much from your husband. Sending you hugs and vibes for strength and peace.

User Profile: sympatheticPlane5550
sympatheticPlane5550 November 10th, 2021

I think you're not wrong for feeling this. He should give you his time and attention. That is his baby too. He should take care of you. You need to calmly discuss how you feel about his behaviour with him. If because of pregnancy you feel tired, stress then keep his behaviour out of your mind for some time and just focus on yourself.