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Is this a thing you can forgive?

User Profile: MissOceanWeaves
MissOceanWeaves May 1st, 2020

My fiance and I live together since November of last year, We've been on a relationship for almost 4 years, today he broke my heart, we argue about some stupid thing because he wanted to buy a new game and I told him I did not agree since que has another games and he has spent all of his quarantine free time playing.... stupid I know... but he was very angry and mention some horrible things about my mom, because I've always supported her with money every month, she is the best and doesn't earn enough, and he just mentioned that like "it is not my fault that your mom is not successful" I am really hurt, and I am stuck in quarantine with him, I have never said something like that to him or his family, I just don't get how someone could be so cruel when angry.... this is not the first time he says something hurtful, but when he is no angry he is the most wonderful boyfriend I am seriously torn.... and sad

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User Profile: happychan2006
happychan2006 May 1st, 2020

@MissOceanWeaves

Hello, I hope you're doing better right now. I can only image how you may feel , however I still could relate. My mum and dad are divorced. My dad had an obsession with video games and my mum couldnt stop him from getting anymore games. They would constantly argue about it. With that being said the arguments would branch out....and other things happenend.

I see why you are really torn on the situation. I do recommened you sit down with him and try to have a very calm conversation. Make sure he knows that you are really hurt by what he said but dont like over do it. try to stay calm and relaxed. if he raises his voice stay calm and quiet.

I hope this helps, bless your heart!