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User Profile: motocrossxblonde
motocrossxblonde March 10th, 2023

Hi!

I used to date someone around 5 years ago. It ended on a bad note. I blocked him on everything, no contact at all.

2,5 years ago, I found someone new. He's absolutely the love of my life, made my life better and he's just everything I want.

Now... Here's the thing. I made a new account and my ex messaged me on it. He apologized for his behaviour and all, but he said something that crossed my line and blocked him again.

But I seriously can't end things on a bad note, it gives me really bad anxiety. We didn't really talk it through at all. Should I unblock him, let him message me and take the first step, talk it through and end it on a good note? Or should I just "deal" with it?

Note: my boyfriend is on everything up to date, he knows everything.

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User Profile: 0m
0m March 11th, 2023

@motocrossxblonde

What sort of end would you consider a good note? Knowing what you do of him, do you think he would cooperate to end it well?

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