I want to get our love back...

@KelsiO

It is definitely frustrating when your wants and needs are not met. It is also frustrating to hear that you cannot meet your partner's wants and needs. Relationship is full of compromises. Both partners have to give and take. Create a list of things you're willing to do with him and things that you're not. Let him know what you're willing to compromise on. For exmaple, you can go to parties with him from time to time, and he can do something that you like to do, from time to time. If you can't make it, make up the loss by doing something else he likes and you're willing to do it. So long as the two of you can work out your differences and meet each other's needs, the relationship can work. It also sucks to be stuck in a rut of the relationship. Usually, it's a sign that both partners got too comfortable with each other. Spice things up. Do something new. Find a common adventure together. Heck, recreate the first date you two had. Remember the reasons why you two fell in love with each other. What quirks did you like about your boyfriend? What qualities do you admire in him? What did he do to make you fall in love with him? Vice versa. Both of you should show each other the best qualities of yourselves and why you both went into a long-term relationship. I hope it'll work out for you.