Loneliness
I have two bestfriends now. The R is my bestfriend for 3 years and C is for like 3 months. I and R had a bestfriend and were trio of three and there were drama between R and our mutual bestfriend making C to join our trio. I am still bestfriends with my mutual bestfriend. So basically R and C had like 2 night outs without me and i sometimes felt left out . now C has hers and R wallpaper on phone excluding me i really dont know if they really want me or not
@warmheartedFan3429 I know how you feel, its really not a nice feeling to be left out, especially since you said you've been friends with R for so long. Maybe since C is so new to the group, R is trying to make more of an effort to get to know them and make up for the lost time? I'm sure it's not because you're not wanted, there's potential neither of them are intending to make you feel that way, they might just be unaware. Maybe you could try bringing it up with them, mention that you feel a bit left out or maybe question why you weren't invited to those hangouts. You don't have to make it confrontational, you could just nicely say how you'd love to see the both of them too sometime. I hope it gets better for you and they start making you feel more appreciated soon <3