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Lonely and Helpless

User Profile: cluelesssoul
cluelesssoul December 22nd, 2019

Hi,

For the past few months, I have been feeling extremely lonely and have been crying myself to sleep feeling very helpless. I am from India and Im 19 years old and Im in college. This whole thing started when my new academic year was about to start. Most of my friends in college and I werent friends anymore because we just didnt click together anymore. They had different opinions and different views about things and I didnt confirm with those. Moreover, I had 2 really really close friends at the time. Ive known these 2 for a long time. One of them is pursuing architecture so, shes always very very busy and we dont talk so much anymore and even when we do, we have such little time that we dont end up talking about serious things. And the second one, well, there were some things she had done that hurt me but she didnt think shed done anything wrong and a lot of stuff happened and we just stopped taking.
now, since I had no friends, I was already pretty lonely. And then I also have a boyfriend but, he lives in an apartment with his 3 friends and he always has plan or things to do and doesnt have time to talk to me and I feel very taken for granted in the relationship. And, also, my family is not very close so, I cant share things with them or talk to them about these things.
all in all, things have been pretty bad the last couple of months.

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User Profile: JoyfulUnicorn
JoyfulUnicorn June 20th, 2020

@cluelesssoul

I am really sorry to hear that you have been struggling so much i know that you posted this back in december and i apologize on behalf of cups that no one replie to your post!

I hope you have been taking care of yourself and if you have found using cups useful and found supportive listeners!

Stay Strong

-Joy <3