Marriage problems with baby
My husband belittles me and makes me feel like a bad mom. Then he says I'm selfish if I cry in front of our son because of the bullying. I just have to smile and pretend to be happy all the time and I'm dying inside. I love him, but how do I deal with someone who I am never good enough for? He also seems jealous of his own child. Ever since our son was born five months ago he's started throwing fits about how he doesn't get any attention and we don't have sex anymore. I'm trying my best, but taking care of a baby requires a lot! And it's hard to want to be affectionate and intimate with someone who treats you badly on a regular basis.
My marriage ended for the same reason, but I was the idiot that acted like your husband. I had to lose my wife to be lifted from my blindness. He won't see it for a while unless he can get a wake up call. I hope you two still work it out. You deserve someone who will treat you right and doesn't doubt himself or worth. I miss my wife and for that reason I hope your man can wake up quick.
A good show to watch as a couple is called Andy Stanley: Starting over... It's a part 4 series, it talks about your guys situation and how you can each better yourselves for yourselves then be better for each other