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User Profile: politeTangerine5994
politeTangerine5994 May 19th, 2021

I’ve been dating this woman for 2.5 years now. Our relationship is long distant. She travels for work and that turned into a issue. At the beginning of Covid lockdown she slept with her ex in another state. After that I ended up losing my job do to the pandemic and she really helped me a lot financially and mentally. That made it tough to leave her after cheating but now I’m back on my feet and she has another contract coming up in the same place. She lied and denied constantly about having the contract but I found out she is going in a week. Should I leave her and what’s a east way to just move on without losing any sleep?

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User Profile: CatsInTheCradle
CatsInTheCradle May 19th, 2021

@politeTangerine5994

I'm sorry she did that to you. But even after cheating and getting caught, she still lies and plans to do it again. She doesn't have a shred of loyalty or commitment in her heart and you know that she isn't going to change any time soon. It will only get harder once she's gone during the week too, so it's probably best to just go your separate ways before then, and let her know that you're ending things, delete her number, and don't let her contact you any more. She won't be too broken up about it because her ex will be more than happy to console her anyhow.

People that tell you they love you, while sleeping with their exes - you can't trust what they say, you can't trust what they do. There just isn't anything much left after that.

Wishing you all the best with it!
CatsInTheCradle​​​​​​​