My Husband wants 10 days...

My husband wants 10 days. It has been a very hard almost three years of us being married together. When we got married it was under the circumstances that his father was passing away witch in fact he did we got married in the hospital in front of his dad and my two children. We had only been together for 6 months. Yes I know we got married very quickly I knew immediately when I first met my husband that I was in love with him there was this pull this kind of feeling that I had like I like I belonged with him like my soul was longing for something for so long and finally once I met him it was just like I knew he was the one. I never wanted to get married not ever coming from a broken home where my parents had divorced when I was young and I was pretty much the cause of my parents divorcing due to the fact that my parents couldn't get along and always drug me in the middle when I was young. And having two children with a man that was severely abusive and all aspects of life I knew I never wanted to get married. But then I met him and things changed his father got sick once we started seeing each other we went from hooking up to him moving in with me and my kids 2 rushing to the hospital because his father was deathly ill and then we got married. We never got to date we never got that feeling of okay well do I really like this person is this how I want this to be is this going to be the way it is kind of feeling but we just jumped in and it was the circumstances of our situation.