My fiancé walked out
My fiancé walked out on me a month ago. He came back last Thursday to collect his things. We would have been married last august but it was postponed because of the pandemic. He has a history of this. The last time was august 2019. That lasted til Oct. I think he may have borderline personality disorder or something similar. I’m not coping well. I’m alone here moved to his country. Stuck here due to Covid and can’t get home. At least for another 3 weeks when the country lists will be reviewed again. I feel hallow and don’t know what to do
Walked out on you? 🤕
So we live together and have a dog together. The argument was on may 24th. The same day a friend came to visit and so he stayed in his hotel room for 4 days. He came home late on the Friday but didn’t want to talk. I went to bed as I wasn’t well. He woke me up. I didn’t know what he was ranting about, some ultimatum and 2 days. When he came back last Thursday to collect his things he said he gave me 2 days to decide if I wanted a relationship with him. He didn’t listen when I said I didn’t understand that I was Half asleep. After the first night home, he then came on the Sunday. Again didn’t want to talk. Wednesday he came home very late and said he had spoke it all through with a friend (a new friend I have never heard of before) he has concurred that I am terrible for him and have ruined his life. He spoke at me for ten mins and I wasn’t allowed to respond. When he finished I tried to talk. But he wouldn’t listen. I went to bed. Came down an hour later to try to talk. It became an argument. He just wouldn’t listen to me and it made me so frustrated and angry and emotional. He returned the following Thursday to collect his things
