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User Profile: Cottoncandy3
Cottoncandy3 March 2nd, 2022

This is my 1st thread, my boyfriend loves me but He never takes me out on dates or trip and I never also asked him to take me out, one day he asked me shall we go on 1 day trip I said we will see. Then recently he asked me to ask my roommate to join us for the trip then I asked him why you would like like to join the trip he said she talks openly that’s all nothing more, but I am confused whether he is liking me or not? He is not even spending time like before, I only have to force him to come and meet… I need help whether to trust this person or not and having doubt that he likes me or not?

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User Profile: Lifeonmars787
Lifeonmars787 March 2nd, 2022

Hi, I understand your confusion. There could be several reasons that maybe have nothing to do with you, it could be laziness. But in any case, you have every right to be bothered by this behavior. Talk to him, tell him how you feel and how you would like things to be different. He needs to make an effort if he wants to be with you, the fact that you can't trust him is not good and shouldn't be ignored. If he cares about you, he'll prove it to you in his own way.


User Profile: justastresseddude
justastresseddude March 2nd, 2022

He still likes you but he's having interest in your roommate but won't tell you till maybe the interest in her dies off or he loses feelings for you

User Profile: Cottoncandy3
Cottoncandy3 OP March 3rd, 2022

Thank you guys for the reply. I asked him he is saying you might be uncomfortable if I bring boys so I asked you to bring your roommate with you so that we only 2 alone go to the trip it gets bored he is saying but still I need time to believe in him