Need self love
I’ve been in a relationship with someone for the past 3 years… it’s been on and off because he has a habit of leaving me every time things get hard… when we had first started dating he felt like I wasn’t taking him serious so he left me for someone else… that relationship didn’t workout so we ended up finding our way back to each other… I got pregnant and had such a difficult pregnancy because he was and has always been a hurtful person, they cheated on me while I was pregnant but I stayed because I wanted a family and I felt like it was something we could work on… I never brought it up and decided I wanted to focus on our future.. my daughter is now 18months but today I found out he went on a date with a girl yesterday, mind you today is my birthday… at this point I feel like I no longer have any self love for myself I have such a low self esteem, I don’t understand why I am not enough… I don’t know what to do because I know I’m just hurting myself by staying and wanting to keep our family together but I just don’t know what to do.. he is a great dad just a really mean and hurtful person towards me…
@peacefulmind567 Hi! I hope this message finds you well. I am so sorry to hear about the way he treats you and that you found out about the date he went on. You don't deserve any of that. I know it may be difficult and you want to keep your family together, but you have to do what's best for you and your daughter too. Is there anywhere you can stay for a while while you figure things out? You have to be confident in yourself too and make sure you love yourself. You need to be treated with respect and this relationship isn't giving that to you. I hope you are able to do what's best for you. We are always here for you! ❤️
