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User Profile: psquared
psquared March 15th, 2022

I’m a college student in my third year and I live in a suite with 5 other guys who I lived with my first year. One of the guys I live with has a twin sister who I hadn’t really met until a few months ago. He will sometimes FaceTime her when I’m in the room, so this will sometimes lead to her and I talking for a little bit. A week ago, I was visiting my friends at their college, which is the same college that she attends, and she asked if we could get food together while I was there. I had been crushing on her for a bit prior to this, so I didn’t hesitate to say yes. We had dinner together and now it’s hard for me to stop thinking about her. I’m not sure if she has any romantic interest in me, so I’m hesitant to tell her how I feel about her. I also don’t want to rush anything. To further complicate things, I feel like it would be wrong to get romantically involved with her when I live with her twin brother who I consider to be a good friend of mine. I know this is a really complex situation I’ve gotten myself into, but if anyone has any advice to give it would be much appreciated!

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User Profile: Secretsrevealed
Secretsrevealed March 16th, 2022

@psquared Seems like a tough situation, We all go through situations like this. As you said you had diner and you often get a chance to talk. It will be best if you can talk to the girl first and try to figure out if she has feelings for you. It will get easier to talk to your friend if you can find out about girls feelings first. I know you are in no rush but its ok to start things to identify the feelings of other for us. As you get chance to talk share your interest and hobbies with ger and if she show intrest and happiness with what you share and her way of talking to you can give you hints whether she is interested or not. aftger that you can move to next step.

Hope it helps. Good luck