Newbie here with years of martial problems
Hi to all. I really need some advice on what happend to me the lady few years. It will take a little time to tell everything. Can I please join your group?
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@unassumingComputer1825
Hi, not sure how this works. I am just going to tell my story from the start. 2017 my Dad died, they stayed with us, and I could do nothing to help his slow painful death. 2018 my Mom, who had a stroke when she was 36, then 71, died of pure giving up on life because she was still looking for my Dad and couldn't accept this death. 2019 I was diagnosed with breast cancer stage 3, both breasts was removed, a lot of chemo and radiation. Plus tamoxifen every day. 4 months after the op, my mother in law moved in after having a psychotic break. My husband lied to me, he said she was going to a home, but when the plane landed, he told me, she is staying. And I need to take care of her. Breakfast, lunch, dinner, wash her. Everything. But, there is nothing wrong with her. She created friction from day one. Her only son, child. Keeps on saying to me, he is mine.
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@unassumingComputer1825
Sorry, I am just going to write this in parts, because I have no time for a little peace an quiet.
I feel that I did not have time to accept the loss of my breast. Then I started to feel like my husband was pulling away. Staying at work longer and making every excuse to spend less time at home. The op was in June 2019, that December I found porn and naked awfully pics on his computer. We had been married for 32 years and NEVER Never had this happend. I was so hurt, devastated and felt more assamed of my body. I tried to talk to him, he only said, it's nothing, don't worry about it.