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No true friends

User Profile: indigoOrange9898
indigoOrange9898 November 11th, 2021

Throughout the months, I met my friends from school again, who's actually more my boyfriends friends than mine, but he's not seeing it. He told me if I make efford they'll be my friends too and I made effort, but I realised that I'm still just his girlfriend or plus one for most of them. It's unfortunate. I feel like I wasted my time hanging out with people, who I'll never be able to talk to about my problems, who wouldn't care if I'm gone, I'll be lonely, if the relationship ends. I made friends of my own, but all of them will move away. Leaving me with no one to talk to about my problems, again...

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User Profile: CheeryMango
CheeryMango November 14th, 2021

Hello Indigo. I’m sorry you haven’t been able to become acquainted with your boyfriend’s friends and it doesn’t seem fair for him to be such dismissive to you about it. I know making friends and keeping friends isn’t easy to do but like you said you are putting in the effort and it doesn’t seem to be working. I do hope by being here you’re able to feel less alone and get support that you need ❤️

User Profile: enjoyiableBlanket9782
enjoyiableBlanket9782 November 16th, 2021

@indigoOrange9898

Hello Indigo,

I am sorry to hear you are going through this and have not been able to make friends with your boyfriends friends, that is definitely hard. It is difficult to feel as though there is no one on our side. I hope with time you are able to find your circle and you won't have to feel this way anymore.