Pics and videos of exes
My fiancé has pics and videos of her ex boyfriend of Facebook. I ask her to take them off. She said I don’t trust her. If I trusted her, I would look past them. It bothers me to see the pics and videos. Am I wrong for feeling upset and jealous?
See you are absolutely right in feeling this way ...we can’t help the way we feel about anything anyway but I think that maybe your relationship lacks communication You should try to explain it to her that it’s not about trust ...had that been the case then you won’t have bothered telling her to delete those posts It’s about your peace of mind ...try to tell her that you just don’t like the fact that she still has those posts and that it makes you feel uneasy somehow...that how would she feel if you did the same ...keep your calm throughout If she loves you then she will try to understand you at least
Are they old pictures/videos? When people break up and are devastated, they tend to delete that stuff and purge it. If they don’t care, they will leave it up because the memory is nice, but they don’t miss their ex. She probably feels like you are questioning her love of you. I can see why you’re upset, but I can also see her side of it, too. Is this really a big deal in the scheme of things? Has she ever done anything else to make you question your trust of her? If so, maybe you might want to re-examine your relationship. If not, I would just let it go.
Also, I don’t want to dismiss your feelings. You have every right to feel what you feel. Just make sure to not let a knee-jerk reaction to cloud the entire picture. She chose you, not the other guy.