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User Profile: anamary
anamary November 18th, 2021

Hello, I'm new here, i just had something happened and I don't know how to handle it... My boyfriend said to me that I am a used woman and nobody wants that , i want to mention that i never had one night stands... I only had 3 relationshis that i was always serious about before an that are all te men I've been with, i am 30... How can anybody say that???

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User Profile: lavaan
lavaan November 18th, 2021

that is not a red flag, that is bigger than a flag!! leave him, he in not worth your time, no matter how many men you've been with that does not determine your worth in any way!

User Profile: sunkissedearth
sunkissedearth December 12th, 2021

@anamary

Hi, i'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you are okay.

Your previous relationship was a part of you and he has to accept that. Everybody has a past but it does not define one's present. And making false assumptions about a person's life is totally unacceptable.

What he said to you was extremely disrespectful. See if you need to set your boundaries and make him understand what you want from the relationship.

Sending you comfort beams.

User Profile: delicateHeart3871
delicateHeart3871 December 13th, 2021

@anamary I am very sorry this was said to you. I would be so upset if someone I cared about said that to me. I am sending lots of warmth your way and I hope you find clarity in this situation.