Relationship Issues and Anger
I can’t be the only one that had a family growing up that would yell but not realize they’re yelling until they’re fighting. As I’ve gotten older i was able to meet someone that I love more then anything but in small arguments I end up getting louder and it turns into me yelling which makes everything tons worse. This is my first time trying to find help with the issues that I have the thing that it took long enough for her to say she’s leaving me. Does anyone have any of these?
@DOGmat
Communication in a relationship is the glue. This was a learning opportunity. Did your SO give you plenty of time to adjust your behavior? Did you reflect on your behavior? Did you communicate to your SO how your family speaks to one-another? If you were at an impasse and the two of you couldn't move past this, then you need to accept that you were different people who wanted different things. Everyone is entitled to their deal-breakers in a relationship.
