Relationship issues
Hey, so I've know this guy for over a year and he liked me alot but I shut him off. I feel so bad and I wish I could have change that decision I made in the past. He went through alot/ depression and anxiety and I wasn't there for him. I wanna fix things and be there for him now but he said we are done and he deserves to be alone. I don't want to leave him or loose him. What can I do. I am so hurt and I can't stop thinking about it
sorry to heard that. Im not an expert but If he really liked you and said that your done, that could mean that he maybe just didnt wanted to anoy you anymore. he was probably trying so hard to make you like him and when you shut him down he just gave up. As a boy i can say that if u would text him that u dont want to lose him he would be happy. U said u wanna be there for him now and if still like him u should hurry up and just meet up with him again and fix things. Tell him he should relax and that u accept him the way he is even if he is really akward and isnt funny etc. It will be really wierd at first but this works most of the time bcs he will be himself and he has no presure bcs of trying to act cool etc. If u just want to be friends offer him to put him in the friendzone not as a failed attemped to become a couple instead as restart opportunity. His personality will change bcs u will get to know him when he isnt in simp mode. There is a tiny chance he will lose interest in talking too you when he doesnt see you as girlfriend materia but that happens with other friends too right. Something like that happend to me too but we stayed friends bcs share alot of interest. I got a girlfriend a while after that too. Now were just normal friends and i stopped liking her bcs of that so i feel better and was able to love another person. Whot u do is up too you idkn how your relationship was but i hope whot ever you do will workout.
U wrote alot hh. Sounds legit but it depends on the guy ur dealing with
Kinda scary bcs u sound like some one i know😅