Relationship pause
Me and my bf of 2 years decided to take a pause in the relationship because we both let ourselves go. He told me he still loves me and wants to come back to me when the time is right and he told me he don’t want to date anyone else and that he wants me or nobody but He also didn’t give me a time line for how long this is going to be and I’m leaving to go back home tomorrow and I’m worried that I’m going to lose him forever
@nikklePikkle
Thank you for sharing. I am glad that you open up here. It sounds as if you personally need more information. You are reasonable to feel this way. This makes perfect sense. So, for now think about what you need to know. Be careful and thoughtful and then return to the subject. It sounds as if the idea in general is agreeable to you, but you need more specificity, which is entirely reasonable.
For a first step, write down what you want to know and understand better, then discuss with your partner how you want to talk about it. You can go from there. I think both of you are going into this with eyes and minds open, and that sounds excellent. Don't be shy to ask for the support you need. And, never hesitate to talk to people here about it.
You are not alone. I am glad you are here. Best wishes.
