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User Profile: radioguy2013
radioguy2013 November 11th, 2022

Hey Everyone,


I feel the need to get this off my chest and maybe all of you can offer some non-religious advice.


I am addicted to porn and to sex. It has it killing me from the inside, my marriage, and my family. On top of that, I lie about most things to not male myself look as bad. In my most recent fight with my wife, she pointed out that I don’t feel guilt. I feel shame/embarrassment for what I’ve done, but not guilty. I haven’t looked at “porn” in about 8 weeks, but last night I found myself on Amazon looking at sex toys.


I have a lot wrong with me. I am booking an appointment with a mental health Dr, but maybe someone can learn something from my story. Any advice on saving my marriage or family?

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User Profile: fruityPond7887
fruityPond7887 November 18th, 2022

@radioguy2013 I always believe that communication is really important for any relationship, no matter what is going on. I know it can be hard, but maybe sharing your thoughts a little more openly with your wife could be a start. Also, I always think it's best when you share everything with your doctor that way they can fully understand the situation. I'm proud of you for not giving in these past 8 weeks! You should be proud of yourself too because that's an accomplishment! You'll get through this. Be kind to yourself and give yourself grace. Thinking of you!

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User Profile: radioguy2013
radioguy2013 OP November 28th, 2022

Thanks @fruityPond7887! Good advice too!

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User Profile: fruityPond7887
fruityPond7887 December 2nd, 2022

@radioguy2013 Of course! I hope you are doing okay and feeling better! We are here for you! 😊

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