Sexual Frustrating with spouse
Hello... I desire my spouse more than she does me. I always ask for sex, and she only ask me when I make a big deal about it. I've triedtalking to her, and it never changes! Is there a way I can remove this desire as its basically torture. She will have sex if I ask, but I feel like this is one sided. What is wrong with me and why does she not want to share us together? I would love to kill this feeling forever so I won't have to ask her anymore and feel like a unwanted piece of crap. .... Help please....
@Rhodez
There's always an imbalance.
According to John Gray "men are from Mars and women are from Venus" men cope much better when they have the next fix in the diary.
So he recommends that you decide with your partner a schedule, say Sunday morning, Tuesday evening and Friday evening, so your body can relax.
You should really both read the book. You have to keep romance alive too, which can be tricky at this time. So, lots of treats and flowers.
@Rhodez
Incidentally, it doesn't mean she doesn't want you, it means she feels a bit overwhelmed!
