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Should I discuss my worries?

User Profile: vivi23
vivi23 February 8th, 2020

My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months now. He works a lot and when he's off I'm working. I feel like we never get time together. But anytime we're both home, he's always hanging out with our roomates and barely pays attention to me. I've brought it up a few times and he always pays me a bit more attention for a few days then resumes ditching me or leaving me alone. And most times he's hanging out with our female roomate. I feel like I'm overthinking things and making a big deal out of nothing so I don't bother talking to him but I just want to feel like I'm needed and he makes me feel like my feelings and I don't even matter. I know deep down he isn't doing any of it intentionally but it just hurts really bad. I love him so much and he's done a lot for me but at this point I'm ready to just leave him.

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User Profile: blissfulCandy2618
blissfulCandy2618 February 8th, 2020

@vivi23

Hello dear, your worries are always valid and best talked in a relationship. Don't forget that comunication plays a very important role to maintain a healthy relationship laugh.

I understand you both are busy and the times you works prevent you from spending most of the time together but how about voicing your concerns again and maybe expand the conversation and really just put everything on the table, your feelings, your concerns, worries, needs, fears, hopes... everything that you feel like you should speak out. Bottling up emotions is no good, eventually the emotions will come rushing down in an agitations, and we don't want that, do we? cheeky

I suggest you try to keep the communication going (and maybe even scheduled hang outs like movie nights, walks etc wink)