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Should you always tell your boyfriend if you cheat?

User Profile: Findingmyself312
Findingmyself312 November 29th, 2016

I kissed another guy because my boyfriend was moving away. I don't know what to do now. He wants to have a long distance relationship . Should i tell him or not?

I love him a lot and wanna be with him.

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User Profile: ChromeLotus
ChromeLotus November 29th, 2016

Looking at it in the big picture... your BF was moving away, and it was only a kiss. Ppl hav done FAR worse. Sharing that info with him, certainly won't improve your relationship. I'd let that one slide (no one is perfect) BUT don't do it again, if your in a committed relationship

User Profile: 2wheelsdown
2wheelsdown November 29th, 2016

@Findingmyself312

What does your heart tell you? What feels right to you personally? If you feel driven to be open, and are ready to deal with the consequences, then share. But if you made a mistake and won't do it again, and feel it would cause more harm than good, then maybe it's better to keep that to yourself.

It is entirely dependent on your personal feeling of what's right.

User Profile: aannkit
aannkit November 29th, 2016

@Findingmyself312

Stephen kissed me in the spring,
Robin in the fall,
But Colin only looked at me
And never kissed at all.

Stephens kiss was lost in jest,
Robins lost in play,
But the kiss in Colins eyes
Haunts me night and day.

User Profile: Helping2findaway
Helping2findaway November 29th, 2016

@Findingmyself312, Hello there, sounds like youre very confused about the situation you are in, i think it is always wise to follow your inner voice in those situation.

User Profile: Ladybug11
Ladybug11 December 21st, 2016

@Findingmyself312 I am on the side with most other comments here, I would also let it slide... also if you truly feel like you can enjoy yourself and be happy during a long distance relationship then alright give it a shot, if you know that you will struggle and be unhappy then maybe consider telling him about your opinion of said relationship. Best of luck :)