Things are getting worse
I've been in a relationship with by bf since 2 and a half years. It was all great,we together even pass the difficulty of long distance relationship once,yes we fought too but we solve it together by communicating and understanding each other.
But nowadays things are getting worse and worse and we aren't able to fix the simplest conflict between us. Almost every night we fought, in the we forget and forgive and all gets good and again at the same night we fought again!
I try to communicate things and try to accept my mistakes so does he but nowadays even I accept my mistakes he just blames me for all the things which isn't my fault. It feels like he is considering me as an enemy and hates me with all his heart. It tears me apart.
Yesterday he at last in frustration wanted to leave me & I was crying my heartout on the call. You know he felt good that I was crying, he said the more u cry the more I feel good , go carry on. It just broke me to the pieces I was trying all my heart to fix things last night but when he said this I just became sure that he hates me alot.
Fact is that today morning he texted me and told me that he won't leave me, though I am not satisfied with it. Why did he came back to me if he hates me so much and feel so good when I cry in fear of loosing him?
@imaginativePine1592 hi there. thank you very much for sharing this with the community
i am very sorry that you went through this. it sounds like your partner really did and said things very hurtful and even disrespectful. i understand how this all hurt you very deeply, and how even though he said he won't be leaving you, it still did not satisfy you. it honestly makes sense, especially upon saying those hurtful things to you :(
Thank you for the reply...I don't know what should I do after all I don't want to go back to him because the love and care I had for him all got vanished after last night when he said those hurtful things. I wonder if everything become same if we got back together after this .
Hi there. I can understand how you are feeling about it. And I sincerely apologize that you are feeling that way, but I can't be there for you to help you in real life. It's really hurting how he was showing pleasure in your pain. And doesn't try to understand. And said some disrespectful stuff. I can understand how you are going through a challenging period. But the way he blamed you for everything and felt good about your pain, it's concerning. Because your feelings are incredibly valid. And you deserve a relationship where you'll
Hi there. I can understand how you are feeling about it. And I sincerely apologize that you are feeling that way, but I can't be there for you to help you in real life. It's really hurting how he was showing pleasure in your pain. And doesn't try to understand. And said some disrespectful stuff. I can understand how you are going through a challenging period. But the way he blamed you for everything and felt good about your pain, it's concerning. Because your feelings are incredibly valid. And you deserve a relationship where you'll feel safe and sound, loved, cared about, and valid. You deserve the world in a better place.
