Trust issues
My boyfriend has cheated on me with several girls on Tinder. But I forgave him because he said that he's regretting already on what he did. But I caught him searching girls on instagram who he had talked to on Tinder.
Any advice? :( I really want to trust him but it's hard part on me. And I know checking out on girls are normal for men. So there...
@confuzzled14 once a cheater always a cheater i would just tread carfefully
@confuzzled14
While checking out girls may be normal for men, choosing to continue an activity that has hurt you is not normal for anyone who cares about you. So no, in this case it is not normal. He has already caused pain by his behaviour, the least he can do is try to rebuild your trust. Seeking out girls he cheated on you with is no way to rebuild trust. This shows he does not respect your feelings or boundaries.
I would suggest taking some space for yourself to think deeply about the direction you want your life/relationships and then decide whether he is the right person for you.
